It's me or.....

Over the last few months of last year three friends of mine had given their significant others ultimatums. All of them felt strongly about their respected positions. I deduced that, essentially, they want control over another human being and that is a long road to nowhere. An ultimatum is a dead end road. Whenever you are at the point when you are asking your lover to choose you or a relationship over another distraction, you've already lost. Ultimatums are a desperate last attempt for proof of love and if you don't have it already, then honey it sure ain't coming now.